The Ultimate Guide to Being Confident!

Confident /Kon-fi-duhnt/

Synonyms: certain, assured, unafraid

Antonyms: uncertain, unsure

Being confident is probably your greatest accessory. It’s not about being a loud mouth, a show off, being overbearing, rude or shoving your opinion down people’s throats. It is about being sure of who you are, what you’re about, your abilities and your worth as a person. It emanates from a place of self knowledge, self love and acceptance.

One who does not know and love her/him self cannot be confident.

Personally, my confidence comes from the continuous knowledge of my creator which translates to a continuous knowledge of me. I was made in the image and likeness of God and so that means that to know him is to know myself. The more I invest in knowing him, the more I become like him. It’s garbage in garbage out. I take in the God knowledge, I become more like him.

Based off this, it’s basically impossible to have a low self esteem. God is highly esteemed, awesome, complete, nothing missing, words are not enough! And I’m just like him. I really do not know any other confidence giver or booster that is better than that!

I do not look to anybody to make me feel beautiful or smart or great. I do not need the validation of the world, I have all the validation I need.

This is the ultimate guide to being confident and the ultimate solution to insecurities, self doubt and low self esteem!

Look to your roots. Find out about your maker and what your maker put inside of you, who he has made you and affirm it! Say it, fake it, until you believe it, make it!

Let me assure you, you are amazing! Regardless of how you are looking, what you are wearing; on a bad hair or make up day, when your clothes are stained, when you’ve added or lost weight in excess, whether you grades are down, or you’re not where you want with your career or business, all of that is irrelevant to who you are.

Discover your amazing self, become the best version of yourself; the work starts from inside. Confidence does not come from the size of your bank account or how amazing you are looking, those things are fickle and are subject to change. However, the core of who you are, who God has made you, and the fact that He, the monarch of the universe lives (and wants to live) inside of you cannot change. And that, my darling, is where your confidence should be.

The Look!

This particular look gives me cat woman (without the leather), badass vibes lol! I really did the barest minimum but I totally love it!

I paired a black crop top with black leggings and creepers! Accessorized with a choker, very extra embellished shades and an beautiful embellished detail mini bag.

Style tip!

The right accessories can make a basic outfit go from 0-💯real quick!

Top- Local market

Leggings – Forever 21

Creepers – Fenty x Puma

Shades, Choker & Bag – IG store (@all.thingschic)

Click here to watch my new YouTube video on how to set your goals and achieve them this year!

I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; wonderful are your works, I know that fully well. – Psalm 139:14< Love & Light!..

Adaeze Ume
  • Uduma Amara
    Posted at 22:28h, 08 January Reply

    Thank you ma’am… I needed this

  • Nikki Living Life
    Posted at 22:03h, 10 January Reply

    Agree, one can rock anything as long as one has confidence. Thank you for sharing beautiful. Love your style and those sunnies are perfect on you. Enjoy your evening.


    • Adaeze Ume
      Posted at 22:04h, 10 January Reply

      Exactly! Thank you so much!

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