Love, Singleness & Styling in Color!

“Why is a beautiful girl like you single?”

This is the funniest question I get all the time!

There is a somewhat negative connotation that goes with being single and I can’t fathom why.

People constantly want you to explain why you’re single or to hook you up so that you can be “happy”. Or they say things like “that’s why you’re still single”; bruh, I chose this life!

In all my life, I’ve never been as happy with my life as I am now. I am entirely content with myself; on the journey of knowing God and self.

It’s a choice and it’s one that’s best for me; for now.

And if you’re worried that you’re still single; click here for something that would help you.

A few uncoordinated thoughts about Love:

1.God is love, love is expressed in giving, love is a choice!

2.I believe a person who does not know God does not know love.

3.If you cannot love the people around you; how then can you say you Love the God you cannot see?

4.There’s a thin line between self love and being self absorbed.

5.Someone who loves only themselves cannot impact the world. To make impact you have to see a need and let love move you to respond.

6.True love exists because God exists. A person who has Christ in them is capable of expressing that unconditional love.

7.Forget Romance; is there respect and giving?

8.Everyday is a day to show love to people around you, to yourself and most importantly to God. Let’s also remember that the only love you actually need, is God’s love; and you already have that! The rest is just extra!


The Look

This is a really colorful look and I love it! I paired a red graphic body suit with mustard yellow pants!

The Dricky Stickman custom denim Jacket is a winner! I wore it “unbothered” and threw in a pair of white sneakers and this cool cat was good to go!

The shades are a vibe; I styled them here too.

“Taken” body suit – Local market

Custom denim jacket- Dricky Stickman

Mustard Pants- Zakarie

Sneakers- Adidas

Shades- Street vendor

Interlock Neck Chain- Asos


Photography: Riya of Riyality Photography

“For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believes in him, shall not perish but have everlasting life.” – John 3:16

Love & Light!

Adaeze Ume
  • Amarachi Uduma
    Posted at 20:11h, 14 February Reply

    Enthralling post. I love the singleness part. God bless you sis.

  • Zenith
    Posted at 20:15h, 14 February Reply

    Nice one.. You rock girl

  • Anzaku Faith
    Posted at 21:01h, 06 March Reply

    Nice piece…i read this and i totally enjoyed it…Ride on girl

    • Adaeze Ume
      Posted at 21:46h, 06 March Reply

      Yay! Thanks for stopping by, Faith.

  • Chinelo
    Posted at 17:17h, 28 March Reply

    Your blog is just beautiful and you are even more beautiful. I’m really happy I came by. You live in Enugu, right? How would you like a meet-up? ☺

    • Adaeze Ume
      Posted at 23:47h, 04 April Reply

      Thank you Chinelo! We can sure plan to meet up!

  • Timi
    Posted at 13:59h, 07 July Reply

    I want the pants… Colors everywhere.. nice one.

    • Adaeze Ume
      Posted at 05:37h, 08 July Reply

      Lool come and have them! Thank you

  • Brya
    Posted at 23:15h, 01 January Reply

    Thank you! Needed this encouragement! Gets tough being 24 and single! May God bless you! Would love for you to check out my blog centered on Christ. Thanks in advance ❤️

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